YOUNG LOVE

When is the right time to fall in love?...

Often times we hear from older people or even people of our age say to young ones, "Don't fall in love yet, you are still too young. You need to finish your studies first. You need to help your parents or mother or siblings first before falling in love." The young ones wouldn't understand it, rebellious act will come out. Some young ones who are scared to their elders, or wanted to be good children will try their best not to "fall in love".

When you are in high school, it's that time when crushes or admiration start. You see someone who dress up well, handsome or beautiful, sexy, smart in class or someone who cares for you, helps you with your projects or homework or assignments. Most teenagers identify these things as Love.Then these young ones commit themselves into a "relationship". That kind of relationship that lasts for few weeks or months. Good thing if it lasts for years. But the thing is, high school love is not really reliable. You might like her or him at that time because she or he is within the circle you're revolving around. Then once you're out or she or he is out of that circle then you find somebody else. 

Some parents have a major concern, thus do not approve their kids having a "relationship" at an early age, which is high school age. Having a relationship might distract their kids studies. How would their kids handle heartbreak. Their daughter might get pregnant or their son might get a girl pregnant.These type of parents are often described by the kids as strict,over protective and controlling. If only these kids would understand that these parents are only protecting them for their benefit. They're protecting their future. No parents on their normal condition would want their kids suffer from any pain. There are parents however, that it's alright if their kids would have relationship at an early age. They might be considered "cool" parents. It's not because they're not concerned about their kids future but they just wanted their kids to decide for themselves. They wanted to be their kids friends not only as parents. May the kids of these type of parents be responsible enough to give their parents due respect for the trust given to them. 

Most young ones, entering into a relationship often mistakenly thought of it as Love. Love is a bit complicated thing. There is no right time for love. It will come unexpectedly and even in unexpected places. Entering into a relationship though can be a choice, decision. What is your purpose in having a relationship with someone?